Change is hard. Not because it’s impossible, but because your brain resists anything unfamiliar. Every time you try to make a better choice, something that challenges old habits or patterns, it will feel uncomfortable at first. And that’s totally normal.
When you pick a new behavior, something different from what you’ve done before, your brain doesn’t immediately assess whether it’s right or beneficial.
Instead, it asks only one question:
Is this familiar?
If the answer is no, your mind will send signals like:
- “This feels strange.”
- “Maybe I shouldn’t say that.”
- “I’m not used to doing this.”
- “This is uncomfortable.”
- “This isn’t me.”
Not because the choice is harmful, but because it disrupts the old wiring your past experiences have created.
We often confuse the unfamiliar with the unsafe.
But the unfamiliar is often exactly what leads to growth.
The more you choose differently, the less uncomfortable it becomes. Each new choice, repeated over time, rewires your mind and gradually reshapes your habits.
And one day, when you look back, you’ll realize that the discomfort was simply the price of transformation – the path to a better, stronger version of yourself.
The key is to keep going, even when it feels awkward or unfamiliar. Just remember: discomfort is temporary, transformation lasts a lifetime.
Start today – make one choice that feels unfamiliar. Step into the discomfort. Trust that it’s leading you exactly where you want to go and keep going.